6 Things He Only Does If He’s Serious About You
You think that you’ve met the right guy. He’s everything that you ever wanted in a man, but he gives you mixed signals, and you’re not sure if he’s serious about your relationship. You talk to your girlfriends. Some tell you to hang in there and some tell you to move on.
Is he serious about the relationship or are you just wasting your time? Fortunately, there are signs that can quickly let you know if he is serious about you
1. Ask about “that thing”
If you had a job interview you were nervous about, or a doctor’s appointment, a meeting about a possible promotion, or just something you had once mentioned was coming up and he makes a point of calling you up after to ask how it went, he is serious about you. Men who aren’t serious about a woman make a point of not asking for too many details about her life.
2. He Listens to You
If a guy is serious about you, he will really listen and he won’t take anything you say for granted.
You should be able to easily tell if he really listens. Does he pay attention to you when you talk? Does he ask clarifying questions to make sure he understands fully? And does he make you feel heard?
Listening is a skill. And if your guy is doing his best to improve that skill, then he probably is serious about the relationship.
3. He Makes Future Plans
If you see that he makes plans for the future with you, that’s a really good sign. And, of course, the further out the plans, the better. What that means is that he expects you and him to still be in a relationship and that there is a future for both of you together.
Pay attention to the type of plans he makes. Is the trend getting more and more involved? Do the plans involve more time together than before? Is he spending more money with every new plan that he makes with you? These are all other good signs.
4. He Defends You In Public
Men who are serious about their partners will always defend them, irrelevant to whether they are in the right or wrong. A man’s natural instinct is to look after the woman in his life, so if you have gotten yourself into trouble and your man comes to your rescue, then you know that he not only sees you as his girl but also that he is serious about taking care of you and making sure that you are alright.
5. He Helps You with Any Problem
Guys like to fix things, and it’s often their way of showing that they care. If you tell him about a problem that you’re having and he offers a solution, that’s his way of showing you that he cares and is serious about you.
When a guy cares about a woman, he naturally wants to take care of her. He wants to do everything he can to show her that he loves her even without saying it. So, if you have problems that he is always helping you solve or at least offers help, chances are, he’s pretty serious about you.
If he doesn’t show any interest in helping you with problems that you have, it usually means that he’s either a bit on the selfish side or that he’s not all that serious about the relationship.
6. He Makes You a Priority
If your guy is serious about the relationship, usually, he will go out of his way to make you a priority. He will plan things with you for the weekend and during the week too. The bottom line is, if he makes you a priority in his life, then you can be rest assured that he’s pretty serious.
